• Breaking Generational Curses: Teenage Pregnancy

    Breaking Generational Curses: Teenage Pregnancy

    Mommy thoughts: “Taking our own advice can be one of the hardest things to do because we’re the only ones that know every part of ourselves. Despite what you believe you’re capable of, just try living out the things you advise others to do!” Before diving into our break for this month, we’d like to…

  • Who Are You Choosing?

    Who Are You Choosing?

    Listening to a speech by Will Smith last week there was a line that stuck out to me. “Everyday we wake up, we are choosing sh*t that is not in our own best interest.” It sparked a thought in my head, of all the choices I make for myself on a daily basis. It made…

  • Judge Me Not

    Judge Me Not

    As I have thought about things to write on, I have tried to process how to share my experience as a mother during such a stressful time. I’ve now had my first seizure at 25 years old. The frustrations of being in the house with a toddler for five months, is something I haven’t been…

  • I’m Upset

    I’m Upset

    The older I get, the more I find myself so frustrated with the structure and dynamics of The Black Family. Before you question my audacity during such a sensitive time, just continue… Imagine having a passion and love so deep for something all the while deeply despising it at the same time. This is the only…

  • Sleepless Nights

    Sleepless Nights

    Imagine having to deal with everyday stressors of parenting, on top of having a black son in this life we live in. There is something different in me as I began to write this entry. Something I don’t usually feel when I set out to publish. I usually try to go in with a clear…

  • So, Terrible Twos Really Are A Thing?

    So, Terrible Twos Really Are A Thing?

    If you are anything like me as a parent, I am sure there has been a moment or tons of moments of you “knowing” your children will be different from other children. You “know” this because you will raise them different than other parents. Although, I do believe there are things that you as a…

  • Co-Parenting; Just do it.

    Co-Parenting; Just do it.

    When I decided to bring a child into this world, I had no thoughts of what it would be like to co-parent. In fact, the idea of co-parenting was almost like a foreign thought to his father & I. As we know, things happen & life unfolds in ways that aren’t able to be controlled…

  • 11 Months Later

    11 Months Later

    Imagine being a full time mom, a recent college grad, starting your career, moving into a new apartment, maintaining friendships & kinships, and trying to run a social blog for moms who need a break?! How ironic. For lack of better terms the last year has been, eh, scary. Life has felt like it’s been…

  • I Know You’re Weird, but What Am I?

    I Know You’re Weird, but What Am I?

    Hi mommies! Funny how if you choose not to share a part of your lives with social media, people automatically equate it with something being “wrong.” Every now and again people around Desmond and I will express their opinions with us about how “weird” it is that we choose to keep Aiden off of social…